Bowes-Lyon Partnership - Dating Do’s and Don’ts

Welcome to Bowes-Lyon Partnerships second round of hints and tips designed to help anyone who is currently dating or thinking of dating!

With today’s balanced equality amongst the genders, the usual rules of dating are becoming increasingly blurred, who pays for the bill, who calls who first, who decides where to go and what to do? Whilst there is no fool-proof or guaranteed methods to ensuring a successful date there are a number of do’s and don’ts Bowes-Lyon Partnership believes everyone should follow:

1) Who pays for the bill?
There has always been a lot of debate surrounding this question. Some women prefer men to act out the chivalrous role whereas other women are very independent and do not like to be paid for. As a general rule however, whoever arranges the date should expect to pick up the bill. For the purposes of maintaining the balance of equality, it’s a nice gesture to offer to pay for the popcorn if he has paid for the cinema tickets!

2) Where to meet
Think carefully about the venue you chose to meet your date, it’s a must to make a first date in a public place, so leave romantic one-on-ones for later in the relationship. It’s a great idea to choose a place you’re familiar with so that you don’t feel uncomfortable if you get there earlier than your date. But equally, remember to be respectful of your dates wishes, the focus is to get to know them, not to hang out at your favourite bar!

3) It’s a date not a therapy session!
It’s important to find out about each other when dating, but early on in your relationship is not always the ideal time to disclose your life story, leave any ‘baggage’ at home. Talking about your ex, your dislike of a work colleague or details of your last visit to the Doctor are not appropriate topics of conversation.

4) Don’t answer the mobile phone!
It’s very rude to answer your phone on a date, it will portray that you are bored and uninterested. Switch the phone off before meeting your date!

5) Be yourself
Act natural and be confident in yourself. Don’t try and be someone you’re not otherwise you’re going to have to keep that act up the whole time! Remember to have fun, your life is not hanging in the balance, it’s just a date!

Welcome to Bowes-Lyon Partnership’s first round of dating ‘Hints & Tips’. Even the hardiest, most experienced dater still experiences first-date nerves. Our exclusive introductions company has a large database of accomplished, intelligent, attractive professionals but we feel that even the successful and beautiful need a helping hand! Whilst there is no fool-proof or guaranteed methods to ensure a successful first date there are a number of hints and tips we believe everyone should follow:

1) Take pride in your appearance.
You wouldn’t turn up to a job interview with unwashed hair or un-ironed clothes so take the same attitude when meeting a date for the first time. Whilst it is personality and compatibility that will ensure the longevity of a relationship, first impressions DO count. Make sure your hair is styled and your clothes are flattering and if you feel comfortable, your confidence will shine through, making you all the more attractive!

2) Jump in with both feet
Those that jump into dating with both feet and enjoy the process are the ones that have the most success. Half-heartedness will make the process harder and longer. Make a concerted effort to be proactive and dedicate time to meeting new people. It doesn’t come to you sitting on the sofa!

3) Choose venues wisely
If you are meeting someone for the first time, sitting in a dark cinema for 3 hours isn’t going to help you get to know someone. Bowes-Lyon Partnership recommends choosing something light and easy in a public place for a first date; a coffee, a light lunch or an early evening cocktail, that way if there is no spark you can politely make your excuses and leave or, ideally, order that second mojito and enjoy!!

4) Be interested and interesting
Everyone’s favourite subject is themselves but make sure you show an interest in her hobbies, lifestyle, career, etc. Ask relevant questions, pay attention and listen, after all you want to know if your date is compatible for you so this is your best opportunity to find out all you can!

5) Be realistic
Decide what you want to achieve out of dating, are you looking for a long-term relationship, or are you looking for a fling? In either case, plan accordingly and seek out others with a similar outlook to your own. Have realistic expectations, do not expect to be married within 6 months of meeting someone and prepare yourself for the inevitable rejection we all face at some point in dating, and commit not to give up. Remember to enjoy dating for what it is, meeting new people you wouldn’t normally cross paths with, going to new places and overall, having fun!!

Bowes-Lyon Dating Hints & Tips

Welcome to Bowes-Lyon Partnership’s first round of dating ‘Hints & Tips’. Even the hardiest, most experienced dater still experiences first-date nerves. Our exclusive introductions company has a large database of accomplished, intelligent, attractive professionals but we feel that even the successful and beautiful need a helping hand! Whilst there is no fool-proof or guaranteed methods to ensure a successful first date there are a number of hints and tips we believe everyone should follow:

1) Take pride in your appearance.
You wouldn’t turn up to a job interview with unwashed hair or un-ironed clothes so take the same attitude when meeting a date for the first time. Whilst it is personality and compatibility that will ensure the longevity of a relationship, first impressions DO count. Make sure your hair is styled and your clothes are flattering and if you feel comfortable, your confidence will shine through, making you all the more attractive!

2) Jump in with both feet
Those that jump into dating with both feet and enjoy the process are the ones that have the most success. Half-heartedness will make the process harder and longer. Make a concerted effort to be proactive and dedicate time to meeting new people. It doesn’t come to you sitting on the sofa!

3) Choose venues wisely
If you are meeting someone for the first time, sitting in a dark cinema for 3 hours isn’t going to help you get to know someone. Bowes-Lyon Partnership recommends choosing something light and easy in a public place for a first date; a coffee, a light lunch or an early evening cocktail, that way if there is no spark you can politely make your excuses and leave or, ideally, order that second mojito and enjoy!!

4) Be interested and interesting
Everyone’s favourite subject is themselves but make sure you show an interest in her hobbies, lifestyle, career, etc. Ask relevant questions, pay attention and listen, after all you want to know if your date is compatible for you so this is your best opportunity to find out all you can!

5) Be realistic
Decide what you want to achieve out of dating, are you looking for a long-term relationship, or are you looking for a fling? In either case, plan accordingly and seek out others with a similar outlook to your own. Have realistic expectations, do not expect to be married within 6 months of meeting someone and prepare yourself for the inevitable rejection we all face at some point in dating, and commit not to give up. Remember to enjoy dating for what it is, meeting new people you wouldn’t normally cross paths with, going to new places and overall, having fun!!